Often I have clients who ask me what they need to purchase or what they need to change externally in order to reclaim their own goddess. My answer is always the same: Invest in loving yourself.
This may sound cliche' but it's true. The really goddess is the woman who loves herself regardless of age, weight, height, background, economic status or anything else external about them. A goddess is a woman with confidence, a woman who loves herself and a woman who approaches the world with an inner knowing that is exactly who and what she chooses to be.
Many think by coming to me, I am going to help them find a date. Well, a woman who is comfortable and OK being a sensual, sexual, loving, creative human being at any stage of her life, with or without make-up, regardless of the clothes she wears or the shape of her body is going to attract people. But the truth is, this is not about getting a date but about knowing who you are at the core of your being and accepting yourself as such no matter what others say, think or do in response to that.
For me, that means being out there, loud and proud. I am a woman who likes sex, I am a woman who likes to be sensual but I am also a woman who loves to be creative. I am a writer, a crafter, an awesome cook, a reader, a lover, I fight fiercely for the things I believe in and I know for the first time in my 47 years of life that I have incredible value because I am all of those things.
For me, tapping into the goddess within gives me the strength to be all of those things and more. When we operate from that authentic place within ourselves. When we stop repressing, feeling guilty, giving to much without getting anything in return. When we know that we have a right to live out loud, we become magical beings capable of making anything happen in our lives.
For most of us, what stops us is usually old programning, lack of self-esteem, fear of how others react etc... In short, there is almost always an emotional block tied to an old belief system that gets in our way.
So now, I ask you this question: If you could be or do anything without fear of failure or judgement what would that be?
If you are not living life with so much passion and excitement that you can't wait for the next because you are excited to see what is to come, then you are not living your fullest life and you have not tapped into the the goddess within.
I hope you will join me on your journey and share any thoughts, ideas, aha moments and victories as you go along.
Live With Passion
Bel
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