Many women when I encounter them choose to tell mehow sensuality is just not a part of who they are. Their reasons are usually the same: age, weight, economic limitations, etc...
Ladies please hear me when I say NONE of these things are a problem.
Being a Goddess, being sensual, tapping into that incredible feminine power has nothing to do with any of these things. It is all about attitude.
Keep in mind that I have always been "cute" at best for the majority of my life. I am NOT the woman that will ever give women like Catherine Zeta-Jones a run for her money. I am the everyday woman in her 40's who has raised a family, is a mom, likes to make my own soap and loves to cook for relaxation. I am an average woman but what makes me different is that finally on the back end of my 40's I know who I am, I know my value and I know where my power lies.
Sensuality is not about a smoldering look or a piece of clothing. It's about knowing who you are and owning that!
I believe it was Steve Harvey who said that everything men do is to impress a woman and yet ladies somehow as time has evolved, we have forgotten that rule. But truly it is not just about the man (or partner regardless of your sexual preferences), it is about falling in love with YOURSELF! A lovely side effect of reclaiming your own innner goddess is that you attract people to you.
As women we have incredible power but we must choose to use it. Are you sensual? You bet? Have you buried that part of you? Only you know. How do you get it back? We will talk about that quite a bit as we go along but here is how you start:
Remember who you are. Remember that at the core of your being you are an amazing woman. Hold your head high, stand a little taller and SMILE.
A woman who is self assure is beautiful, desirable, sexy, beautiful and sensual and regardless of her lot in life she is POWERFUL!
Claim that power.
I will admit that for myself I do take aesthetic steps as well. I threw out my sweat pants and opted for yoga pants, just a comfy and they look way better. I don't leave the house without making sure I look what I feel my best is for that day. Some days that involves cosmetics other days it's simply involves washing my face and combing my hair and putting on a smile. This is about me taking care of ME. If I walk around feeling frumpy all day, I am going to give off the "I'm frumpy" attitude to all who encounter me. If I decide that I am beautiful, sexy, sensual and powerful, the response of those around me shifts instantly. Try it!
Remember life is precious and you must live it according to you always!
Live With Passion
~Bel
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
Saturday, December 1, 2012
What Do I Have To Do To Reclaim MY Goddess Within
Often I have clients who ask me what they need to purchase or what they need to change externally in order to reclaim their own goddess. My answer is always the same: Invest in loving yourself.
This may sound cliche' but it's true. The really goddess is the woman who loves herself regardless of age, weight, height, background, economic status or anything else external about them. A goddess is a woman with confidence, a woman who loves herself and a woman who approaches the world with an inner knowing that is exactly who and what she chooses to be.
Many think by coming to me, I am going to help them find a date. Well, a woman who is comfortable and OK being a sensual, sexual, loving, creative human being at any stage of her life, with or without make-up, regardless of the clothes she wears or the shape of her body is going to attract people. But the truth is, this is not about getting a date but about knowing who you are at the core of your being and accepting yourself as such no matter what others say, think or do in response to that.
For me, that means being out there, loud and proud. I am a woman who likes sex, I am a woman who likes to be sensual but I am also a woman who loves to be creative. I am a writer, a crafter, an awesome cook, a reader, a lover, I fight fiercely for the things I believe in and I know for the first time in my 47 years of life that I have incredible value because I am all of those things.
For me, tapping into the goddess within gives me the strength to be all of those things and more. When we operate from that authentic place within ourselves. When we stop repressing, feeling guilty, giving to much without getting anything in return. When we know that we have a right to live out loud, we become magical beings capable of making anything happen in our lives.
For most of us, what stops us is usually old programning, lack of self-esteem, fear of how others react etc... In short, there is almost always an emotional block tied to an old belief system that gets in our way.
So now, I ask you this question: If you could be or do anything without fear of failure or judgement what would that be?
If you are not living life with so much passion and excitement that you can't wait for the next because you are excited to see what is to come, then you are not living your fullest life and you have not tapped into the the goddess within.
I hope you will join me on your journey and share any thoughts, ideas, aha moments and victories as you go along.
Live With Passion
Bel
This may sound cliche' but it's true. The really goddess is the woman who loves herself regardless of age, weight, height, background, economic status or anything else external about them. A goddess is a woman with confidence, a woman who loves herself and a woman who approaches the world with an inner knowing that is exactly who and what she chooses to be.
Many think by coming to me, I am going to help them find a date. Well, a woman who is comfortable and OK being a sensual, sexual, loving, creative human being at any stage of her life, with or without make-up, regardless of the clothes she wears or the shape of her body is going to attract people. But the truth is, this is not about getting a date but about knowing who you are at the core of your being and accepting yourself as such no matter what others say, think or do in response to that.
For me, that means being out there, loud and proud. I am a woman who likes sex, I am a woman who likes to be sensual but I am also a woman who loves to be creative. I am a writer, a crafter, an awesome cook, a reader, a lover, I fight fiercely for the things I believe in and I know for the first time in my 47 years of life that I have incredible value because I am all of those things.
For me, tapping into the goddess within gives me the strength to be all of those things and more. When we operate from that authentic place within ourselves. When we stop repressing, feeling guilty, giving to much without getting anything in return. When we know that we have a right to live out loud, we become magical beings capable of making anything happen in our lives.
For most of us, what stops us is usually old programning, lack of self-esteem, fear of how others react etc... In short, there is almost always an emotional block tied to an old belief system that gets in our way.
So now, I ask you this question: If you could be or do anything without fear of failure or judgement what would that be?
If you are not living life with so much passion and excitement that you can't wait for the next because you are excited to see what is to come, then you are not living your fullest life and you have not tapped into the the goddess within.
I hope you will join me on your journey and share any thoughts, ideas, aha moments and victories as you go along.
Live With Passion
Bel
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Reclaim YOUR Goddess
As I begin this journey of transforming the way I work into something that makes me giggle with joy every time I think about the work I am about to begin, I also find myself remembering why this is my passion.
Six years ago everything that I knew was ripped out from under me. My marriage ended, our home was foreclosed, my car blew up on the side of the road and I was LOST. No clue who I was, what mattered to me or what I was going to do. I didn't have a job, a home or my own identity.
I had spent my life being somebody's "something". Now, there I was having to figure out who I was to me.It has been a long road to finding me.
As I began that journey to me, I also found that I buried deep within myself a part of me that was aching to come out an play. That part of me that was fun, silly, sexy, sensual, desirable, exciting, vibrant, mischievous, passionate, vibrant and oh so much more. The part of me that makes me "magic".
When I allow that part of me to come out an play, I make friends standing in the checkout line at a grocery store, I attract potential dates, I attract new friends, my business thrives overall my life thrives. This is not about being the hottest, the prettiest, etc... this is about being me at the very core of my soul. This is about being comfortable in my own skin and knowing that every line on my face, every curve on my body is what makes me an incredible beautiful, sensual, sexy, vibrant women.
Many women think being a goddess is about age, weight, background, clothes, cosmetics, etc... PLEASE do not confuse this for what the media is tossing at us. This is about being you, as you are but instead of turning down that spark, you make the choice to ignite it.
I hope you enjoy my blog and you join me in your own journey of reclaiming the goddess within you!
~Always Live With Passion
Bel
Six years ago everything that I knew was ripped out from under me. My marriage ended, our home was foreclosed, my car blew up on the side of the road and I was LOST. No clue who I was, what mattered to me or what I was going to do. I didn't have a job, a home or my own identity.
I had spent my life being somebody's "something". Now, there I was having to figure out who I was to me.It has been a long road to finding me.
As I began that journey to me, I also found that I buried deep within myself a part of me that was aching to come out an play. That part of me that was fun, silly, sexy, sensual, desirable, exciting, vibrant, mischievous, passionate, vibrant and oh so much more. The part of me that makes me "magic".
When I allow that part of me to come out an play, I make friends standing in the checkout line at a grocery store, I attract potential dates, I attract new friends, my business thrives overall my life thrives. This is not about being the hottest, the prettiest, etc... this is about being me at the very core of my soul. This is about being comfortable in my own skin and knowing that every line on my face, every curve on my body is what makes me an incredible beautiful, sensual, sexy, vibrant women.
Many women think being a goddess is about age, weight, background, clothes, cosmetics, etc... PLEASE do not confuse this for what the media is tossing at us. This is about being you, as you are but instead of turning down that spark, you make the choice to ignite it.
I hope you enjoy my blog and you join me in your own journey of reclaiming the goddess within you!
~Always Live With Passion
Bel
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